Do young people matter? Are they worth fighting for? Do they need fighting for?These are good questions that can best be answered by realizing that the predatorial forces in the world are saying yes to all three. The child abusers, drug dealers, sexual predators, pimps, child pornographers, gangs and even other young people looking to use someone to feel better all have focused their attention on young people.
Why? Because they can and because it pays off so handsomely.
Young people are beautiful, fresh, full of life, gifted, fun and, above all, moldable. They are also less jaded, more niave and considerably more trusting. In a way they are like diamonds laying out on a front lawn...incredibly valuable and amazingly reachable. This spells danger.
A child abuser looking for an innocent to crush can take five steps out of his building to find one. A drug dealer looking for new blood has only to rent a hotel room, fill it with drugs and walk into the downtown area of any major city to invite dozens of youth. Two days and a massive drug binge later, the dealer has a whole new crew of addicts/workers who need more drugs and will do whatever he wants them to do to get them. A sexual predator can walk to the nearest playground and say a few nice words to a little girl or boy playing alone before inviting them back to his apartment for "candy."
A pimp can walk up to a beautiful young girl, seduce her, deflower her and then draw her into a life of drugs and sex for hire to deaden the pain and support the habit. Child pornographers can build relationships with any of the above young people, already damaged by someone before and lead them blindly into letting themselves be photographed. Gang members, in cultures where they represent power, protection and belonging, can easily recruit solitary young boys who are tired of being scared and alone, humiliated and weak. In the gang, they are offered the strength of community, mentoring and functioning in the power of a collective. They find shallow versions of loyalty, sacrifice and love easy bait when they have never tasted anything deeper. Young girls find themselves easily drawn into being the "property" of something so strong and so powerful.
Finally, young people themselves remain the most powerful predators of each other. The innocent girl growing up in the U.S. has quite a fight on her hands to be able to resist the way Hollywood spells out the journey of life. Her friends, most of whose parents are taken away by their work and their own conflicted lives, rally around TV shows and movies that paint a romantic version of love that involves life as a waiting game for the special boy who will show up and fall in love with her, overcome some singular adversity and then live happily ever after. The blogs, chat rooms, magazines and lunch room messages reinforce it all daily. When a boy who could possibly qualify shows up, driven by hormonal urges that she can satiate, it is hard to say no. All that is left is to negotiate how quickly to consumate her initiation into movie-like love. Sadly, it doesn't feel right. He doesn't act right. It doesn't go right. Even if she escapes the first "miss" without being pregnant, the next try and the next try and the next try come with increased risk to STD's, abusive relationships and pain. By the time she is ready for an actual relationship, much of her has been destroyed. Her "near misses" have left her missing.
Young people are being fought for and won every second of every minute of every hour. Seduction, addiction, devastation and elimination are the constant flow through the large majority of youth populations across the world. And as they are damaged, so is the future of each community, city, nation and the world. Disease, danger, high-risk behaviors and damaged, unfortunate outcomes are the constant result.
Who will fight for them for their good? For all of our good? Who will love them in order to add instead of seducing them in order to take? Who will bring them life, better life instead of deception and death?
Will it be you? Will it be us? Can we rebuild the mechanisms necessary to help them? Gardens of love like families, neighborhoods, churches, schools, communities that provide an atmosphere of protection, education, equipping, care and then releases them into their dreams? Every seed sown, every stalk watered will one day blossom into fields of flowers covering the landscapes of our world.
They are worth it. The future is worth it. It's time to fight.
"I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. That is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant." Martin Luther King Jr., Accepting Nobel Peace Prize, Dec. 10, 1964
2 comments:
I am a young person who was in the church but no one helped me to see that the madness in my head was not the vioce of God. I ened up leaving the church lossing my virgenity and sleeping with 30 guys. I disstrust the chruch now and dont knwo if ill ever go back. Religion is a bad thing if it keeps you from helping the young ones but i have pulled myslef together and I am on the path again but with alot more pain that i had to begin with.
I understand what you are saying. I agree completely with your comment that "religion is a bad thing if it keeps you from helping the young ones."
It is great that you were able to find a way to do better.
What helped you?
How are you now?
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